My first date with Raven!

Went better than I thought. He picked me up in a cab && we headed bk to his hotel downtown. We got there && I got comfortable immediately. Idk if its because hes young and blk but the chemistry was OFF THE MEAT RACK! Everything was going perfectly. He asked if I was hungry && for some reason I was craving a grilled cheese sandwich which of course wasnt on the menu. He left me in the room to go buy us drinks at the bar but it took forever (like 30 mins) for him to come bk. I made a joke saying “I was starting to think you were waiting for my roofie to dissolve.” LOL Apparently he made a trip to the Walgreens close by && pulled strings at the hotel restaurant to get me a grilled cheese. HOW SWEET?! We ate together and he made me a very strong drink.

We got more comfortable in the bed && ordered the movie Chronicle which was pretty good. I was drinking Peach Ciroc straight && he told me if I downed it he would give me $50 on the spot. It was strong as fxck but one minute he looked away && the nxt it was all sliding down my throat. THE LIFE OF A WORKING GIRL!!! LOL Idk if it was Ciroc I downed or the Blk N Mild I smoked or a combination of the two but at some point I wanted his hands all over me! I was super horny. Im so good a reading men I knew exactly what to do to get it started. Hes a pretty cocky guy && I was snuggled under him. All I did was look up at him and he grabbed my face && kissed me passionately. Like we weren’t strangers. He wanted me just as much as I wanted him. No foreplay. Just straight intercourse.

From the moment he entered me, he said “Oh shxt. This pussy tight. Its even better than I imagined.” I admit its been a while since I got properly dxcked down. We smashed for about 10 minutes and he stopped saying “Hands down the best ever!” && from those words I knew he was hooked. I hooked a millionaire. No blk man is going to let a girl with the best pussy hes ever had go. He asked to see my ID because he was really in disbelief. We went another round that night && it was time for me to go. We both have a sense of humor which I love && he jokingly calls me a asshole all the time. As far as chemistry goes, it couldnt get any better. He threw some money in my purse that I thought was cab fare but he wanted to stop by the casino. So we dropped him off at the casino && he overpaid for my ride home. The cutest thing happened when he got out cab. Before he closed the door he asked for a kiss && I couldnt help but plant a good one on him! A perfect gentleman && a perfect night.

He wants me to spend the night with him tonight && I really want to but we’ll see :)

Raven Update .

After a week of no communication at all I finally get a phone call from him. When he first began talking he told me he would be in my city the week of the 21st (which was Monday). Monday morning I txted him “Well hello there sir” && no reply . So I let it go. Tuesday evening I txted him “I confused whether this thing is happening or not” && still no reply . I had really given up hope then. Early Wednesday morning I get a late night phone call && its Raven . As angry as I was for the no communication thing , he sucked me right bk up && the convo flowed as usual. He assured me that his flight arrives around 7 pm tonight && I want to be the first thing he does. (Trust I feel the same way) The connection is there like a serious bf/gf connection. We make each other laugh && I think he really likes me.

The only downside to him is that he doesn’t trust women. LIKE AT ALL ! He says that he hasn’t had anything real EVER && thats all he wants. Then asked a really weird question. “If I had an opportunity to make $10,000 a month to have a guys bby would I do it && trap him”? My response was ” No , as adults I would want it to be a mutual decision between both parties but I would never try to trap a man for his money.” He told me I got 5 pts for my answer because he really liked it.

He talked abt the difference between “wealthy” && “rich” and I said I just wanted to be financially comfortable. Be able to provide for kids (I dnt have any) and not freeze up every time bills come or thing about where I have to get the money from.

Im excited to see him && Im pretty sure all we’re gonna do is smoke some maryjane, drink && fxck but not necessarily in that order LOL . Basically just spend some alone time together. Just him && me :) 

Off the market!

Its pretty safe to say I’m off the Sugar market. Raven is more than I could ask for. He’s asked me a couple times where I wanted to go in the country && I’m not a picky girl at all so we decided on South Carolina. I know what you’re thinking “WTF?” Its a fishing trip , we both love to do it so why not ? We’ll charter a boat for a couple hours and hang out. Nothing too glamorous. We want to spend actual time together instead of dinner && hotels. Just him && I in the open water :) He says he’ll take me to see things most 19 or 20 yr olds have never seen. 

I also love that he doesn’t call me any pet names. He says my name like he’s know it for years. I dont like when SDs call me “baby doll” or “sexy”. He’s taken the chance of really getting to know me and we all know how rare that is in the Sugar World. He says we’ll take it slow and live it up for now && let me finish undergrad before things get too serious. I respect that. 

Now my blog will be less about my search for an SD but more about the adventures my SD will be having. 

OH ! He also owns a very upscale gentlemen’s club . I looooove that! Strippers are my fav people besides gays LOL  

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Rainy Days :)

Ive been away for quite some time. SORRY ! But I come bk bearing great news. IVE FOUND MY PERFECT SD ! Its almost like we’re exclusive at this point. I met him on WM && his income is between 500k-2M (which is verified). I’ll call him Raven since he’s a former NFL player turned lawyer && he’s still in his twenties. He’s chocolate like me, tall, very handsome && sweet. I don’t really check out my WM profile that often but I kept receiving msgs from him && I like persistence. We haven’t met yet but he’ll be in my city next weekend && together we’ve planned a very exciting time that includes my new addiction, JET SKIS ! He’s never been married && no kids  but he has been engaged before and it didn’t work out because the woman was white and their families aren’t big on interracial dating so they split up && she got an abortion #sadface

He tells me a lot that he’s baffled by how I’m single && been with such “cheap” men because I’m gorgeous and wifey material. He offered me 5k just for spending two days with him, sex or no sex. We’ve been talking for a few days and JUST got on the sex conversation. Girls, we all know how rare it is that sex talk is delayed. Even if it wasn’t about the money he’s is still an awesome person && great listener. 

Not that this matter, he drives a Range Rover , a BMW , && an Avalanche but really wants a Denali && nxt yr he’s buying a Bentley :))))) 

Just this morning he asked if I drove && I told him no. He was like “What kind of men have you been seeing?” LOL Of course he asked what kind I wanted but I was thinking he could just slide that Range Rover on this way :) He’s really perfect && really really into me. He sent a pic of his dxck && didnt think I could take the whole thing && I bet him that I could. He said “If you can take it all I’ll marry you and give you a 1000 bonus” LOL When we ended the convo , he said “I have high hopes && plans for you, you may be my future ;)” My reply was “I’ll keep my fingers crossed.”

Somebody pinch me , I must be dreaming !